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Let CHOICE FDR help you
There are many reasons why couples separate. Noone wants to start a relationship to have it end. Parents who choose to bring a child into this world, never do so knowing that he/she will be separated from the other parent. Whatever your reason is, let me first of all say - I acknowledge how hard it can be - this is a very difficult time - I want to help you move forward in a meaningful way.
This time of year especially is very challenging for so many separated parents. This might be the first Christmas you have experienced without the family being together. Emotions are heightened even more. Conflict flares up a lot too easily. This time is yet another phase that you will be transitioning through.
If you are a parent, your relationship isn’t over yet - your children are looking to you both to give them love, stability, and support. Your children need to know and feel that you both are able to work together as mother and father. Your children love you both and want to be able to show and express that love regardless of your situation.
Your children need to be able to show that love, even though you both are no longer able to.
I appreciate how easy this is for me to say... but I assure you that in most cases you can continue to have a healthy and functioning co-parenting relationship - not as a couple but as parents.
If you have property, you want to be able to close down this chapter and move on with your life. This is such a significant decision to make. I can help you to take the emotion out of your decision-making.
It is not about reaching the right answer - it is about reaching a point that you can live with - so that you can move on feeling that you haven't been shafted.
You can make the choice not to forget your past, but to allow you the opportunity for a better future – for you, your children, and yes… even your former partner.
Let CHOICE help you.
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Choice Family Dispute Resolution
About Choice FDR
CHOICE Family Dispute Resolution & Mediation is a Perth-based business with over 23 years’ experience in the legal and community legal sector. The core of that experience is about working with people – people who live with and have lived with a multitude of issues and who need support in some shape or form to guide them through to the next phase of their situation.
CHOICE has been created with the focus to assist couples in the very difficult and emotional transition from a relationship with their partner to coming to terms with having a separated relationship.
CHOICE specialises in assisting separated/separating couples with issues regarding the living arrangements and decision-making for their children and with settlement of their financial affairs.
CHOICE has access to numerous networks within the community legal sector, mental health sector, private legal sector, relationships and counselling sector, and Legal Aid sector. If there is an issue that carries over to an area that is outside our expertise, we can offer you direct referrals to specialised services that are ready to assist you if you wish.
CHOICE gives you the opportunity to engage in genuine and meaningful discussion within a safe and open environment. An environment that gives you the opportunity to make informed decisions and to reach a resolution that is in your children's best interests and that you are prepared to live with.
Unless your circumstances require it, going to the Family Court should be your last resort. Family Court is a very protracted process, tremendously expensive (moreso if you have a lawyer acting for you) and a Judge or Magistrate will make a decision for you and/or your children whether you like it or not. CHOICE gives you the opportunity to voluntarily engage in a fast, balanced, fair, safe, and competitively priced process where any agreement that is made is made because you and the other party have chosen to do so.
CHOICE’s principal practitioner genuinely wants to enable you to focus on the root of your dispute – clearing away the secondary matters that tend to fuel conflicts so that you can make the best decision possible.
About JD Roussety
Please take a look at myfor details of my experience and qualifications.
I have worked in the legal and community legal sector for over 23 years in several capacities. My original motivation to work in this area has been and continues to be to help people.
In recent years I have worked exclusively in the area of family law. I worked in a busy private practice dealing with complex family law, child protection, and restraining order matters. I was in court every day and I have represented clients throughout the entire court process.
What became clear to me was how sad and a lot of the time how awful clients’ situations were. As a lawyer, I am a person’s metal detector – guiding you through the family law minefield. More often than not though, you use a lawyer when you are already caught up in the minefield. Now I help couples to make decisions that will keep you well clear of the minefield entirely. What's more, you will be making that decision together.
I am a massive believer in assisting separated couples to help them understand "Why?!". I believe you need to understand "the root" of your dispute otherwise issues will just probably resurface down the track like a weed growing back. Often separated couples avoid the core of what is driving the conflict - "Why are we always fighting?!" "Why can't she just listen to what I am trying to say?!" "Why can't he just acknowledge what he did to us?!". Any discussions separated couples have are not as meaningful as they could be. If anything, discussions just add to the mounting ill-feelings because the core issue still has not been dealt with properly.
Often couples aren't ready to negotiate. Often one or both of the parties aren't able to move forward because of some past issue that they haven't sufficiently processed at that time.
Sometimes separated couples would be better served if they were prepared to engage the services of a family counsellor - not to help them get back together, but to help them understand their situation better and develop meaningful strategies to move forward. Like lawyers though, there are many counsellors out there to access! Where do you begin?! Please feel free to take a look at myfor details of counsellors you can approach to help you get started.
Please be aware that I cannot give you legal advice - myalso has the details of select family lawyers, and other legal services, you can approach to be informed about your options moving forward.
I acknowledge that it has taken a lot of courage to initiate this step. Take the next step and get in contact with me, I will be happy to answer any questions you might have.
I very much look forward in assisting you and your family in this difficult phase of your relationship.
|Screening & Assessment Interview||$150*|
|Family Dispute Resolution Conference#|
(half-day 4 hours)
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|Family Dispute Resolution Conference#|
(full-day 7 hours)
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|* Note: if there is a need to cancel, ensure that you provide more than 24-hours notice for full refund. If less than 24-hours notice is given, only 50% of the fee will be refunded.|
|# If you wish to conduct a Family Dispute Resolution Conference on a Saturday, please add an additional $200 to the Conference Fee|
|(all prices quoted in Australian Dollars; GST not applicable)|
Process & Timeframe
Step One: Assessment Interview
Meet with Parent/Participant 1
Step Two: Assessment Interview
Meet with Parent/Participant 2
Step Three: Dispute Resolution Conference
Half Day (4 hours) / Full Day (7 hours)
Step Four: Follow-up Conference
Please note timeframes will vary depending on how soon both parties make contact and depending on availability of the Practitioner and parties’ solicitors (if applicable).
If child-related matters, and if Parent 2 does not engage with our service, I will attempt to contact that Parent after 8 and 16 working days. If no contact has been made, or the other parent does not wish to engage, I can then issue a Certificate to Parent 1 if requested.
This page contains important information about the laws regarding family dispute resolution - the mediation process - and documents you need to read and prepare for the mediation.
Please read through these when you can.
Just click on the files and you will be able to save a copy to your computer.
Information for Participants
Other Useful Documents
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Please let us know about your experience with CHOICE? Your testimonial could be featured here... to send in feedback!
"Dear JD, I would like to thank you for your generosity in supervising me. I did find the experience incredibly rewarding and to have seen how you support conflicting parties in search for what they might be able to live with was nothing short of inspiring. While the circumstances and personalities of the parties varied, what clearly reoccured was the parties leaving the room at he end of the mediation as if the weight of the world had been lifted from their shoulders. Reducing people's suffering isn't in any of the FDRP reading materials as such. I feel lucky to have been placed with someone who is so mindful as well as highly skilled."
JD is very professional, non-judgemental, calm and appropriate in managing all points of the mediation process. JD is a highly skilled mediator. He has a non-biased approach, and an ability to manage difficult issues and points of discussion in a non-threatening way, whilst maintaining focus and a clear direction. I highly recommend his service."